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those who danced were thought to be quite insane by those who could not hear the music	Tuesday, January 5, 2010, 8:28 PM Do you feel stupid? I do, sometimes. :) it's good to feel stupid once in a while, though. It reminds you to be humble, and it reminds you that, however smart you are, you will never be the smartest. "Now i think my newest phobia is smart people. Because i feel that smart people always, always judge other people." quote anonymous. (why does this remind me of Theodore the Chipmunk?) I think it's safe to say that it includes me. :) I think too much. Naturally, I will think too much about other people as well. And since everyone has flaws, it's not surprising that when I think about other people, I will think about their flaws. Humans have a tendency to dwell on the flaws of others, don't you think? Yes, in my humble opinion, relatively intelligent people do judge other people. Now that that's settled, let's turn to the real issue here. Judgmental thinking is often associated with looking down on others. That is definitely not good. When someone judges someone else, and expresses it, that victim will usually fell hurt. That is definitely not good. When someone judges someone else, but keeps it in the heart, at first no harm is done, but negative thinking is stored up and sooner or later he or she will act, unconsciously, biased against the victim. That is definitely not good. So being judgmental is definitely not good? Definitely, I say. SO... We can safely conclude that being judgmental is one of the reasons why humans can NEVER be perfect. Because humans, with our so, so limited knowledge of things, and our so, so limited compassion and love, will always judge other people. Never mind the intellects, even the ordinary passerby on the street will judge. The only way you as a human being will not judge others? You will have to lose your sanity. If you're not responsible for your own thoughts, then whatever thoughts you have cannot be deemed a judgmental thought simply because you do not judge. God knows all things. God's love is indescribable. Heck, God IS love. That is why God is the only being that can judge anyone else because He knows all things, His judgment is perfect, and add to that, His love and compassion never fails, which is why we know for sure that God will never add to our grief and sufferings unnecessarily. There are many people out there who act like God. If you are one of them, then congratulations, because if you admit that you are one of them, that means you are aware of what you're doing. Carmelia sometimes admits it, and sometimes she does not, because she's a thick-headed narcissist. If you are a victim to one of those people who act like God, then prove your worth. Forgive. And for your own sake (because everyone has their own limit) avoid being the victim again. Seek refuge within the love of your family and friends. Love is blind to intelligence. :)		thegirl♥melia i am fearfully and wonderfully made. First Name? Carmelia; 杨 Last Name? Yong; 秋彤 Birthday? 6th of October, year 1992 Eyes? dark brown Hair? dark i am a rather eccentric person. i think too much sometimes. i'm a happy girl who can be very sad. i'm nice, but selfish. and oh, hello. :) carmeliayong.blogspot is where you are now. pictures and captions live here. articles and rantings live somewhere else. >>somewhere else<< planning to... ~~1♥ get my very own camera~~ ~~2♥ get my very own laptop~~ ~~3♥ pass Piano Practical grade 7~~ 4♥ finish writing a novel 5♥ get my novel published ~~6♥ watch the complete set of Ouran Host Club~~ 7♥ cook curry 8♥ bake cookies on my own 9♥ visit Cheshire Home 10♥ lose ten kilograms 11♥ go on vacation with friends ~~12♥ stay and have fun in a posh hotel with friends~~ 13♥ take picture with a mime artist 14♥ post first ever v-log 15♥ make a cloth doll 16♥ play an electric guitar 17♥ bring Bunny for a dry-clean session 18♥ straighten front teeth 19♥ get paid for a published article or story 20♥ write my very own blog layout html code 21♥ compose and write a song 22♥ visit Korea 23♥ visit Ireland 24♥ design and paint/wallpaper a room 25♥ get 99 roses 26♥ obtain two rabbits 27♥ sing and dedicate the song 'Smile' by Uncle Kracker to a loved one 28♥ dance with him ...but i forget about my 'plans' very soon anyway.		someone♥somewhere Melissa Nana Daphne Olivia Rachel looking♥back + Intelligent much? + Good Commentators. + Excerpt from 'Untitled' + NewsFlash. + What I'd probably end up doing for the rest of 2010. + reasons to be a teacher. + Break Me Down- Tenth Avenue North + MELISSA CHONG SHEN TZU please don't worry about th... + i'm really not sure why i was tossing and turning ... + will be blogging later, after i hang the clothes. :D monthly♥affairs + September 2009 + October 2009 + December 2009 + January 2010 + February 2010 + March 2010 + April 2010 + May 2010 + December 2010 takeabow An accidentality production Inspiration from DancingSheep & BONBON:D		foot♥prints <a href="http://www6.shoutmix.com/?melia1992">View shoutbox</a> ShoutMix chat widget